ego Archives - Coexist - The Alternative Path https://thealtpath.net/tag/ego/ Fri, 28 Nov 2025 10:45:17 +0000 en-US hourly 1 https://thealtpath.net/wp-content/uploads/2024/09/cropped-siteicon-32x32.png ego Archives - Coexist - The Alternative Path https://thealtpath.net/tag/ego/ 32 32 Ego Death: The Sacred Path https://thealtpath.net/ego-death/ https://thealtpath.net/ego-death/#comments Fri, 11 Apr 2025 18:11:05 +0000 https://thealtpath.net/?p=16335 641Shatter the Illusion: What Is ego death, really? Don’t limit your perspective with a mask; it will define you. The ego, after all, isn’t your true nature. I377t’s a construct, shaped by memories, fears, and societal expectations. And while Freud described it as a balancing force between primal urges and moral reasoning, mystics see it…

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641Ego Death Shatter the Illusion: What Is ego death, really? Don’t limit your perspective with a mask; it will define you. The ego, after all, isn’t your true nature. I377t’s a construct, shaped by memories, fears, and societal expectations. And while Freud described it as a balancing force between primal urges and moral reasoning, mystics see it differently.

Witches, Wiccans, and pagans believe the ego is a veil. Pull it aside, and you’ll glimpse the sacred self beneath. Therefore, spiritual seekers don’t preserve the ego—they dissolve it.

The Craft teaches that identity is fluid, and consciousness is vast. To unveil truth, release attachment. Because within the silence beyond ego, your divine essence waits.

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Ego Death Meaning: Beyond the Self Lies Unity

What does ego death truly mean? In short, it’s the collapse of your familiar identity. Lose the “I,” and you’ll find the infinite. During such a moment, you no longer feel separate from others or the cosmos. Therefore, ego death meaning is rooted in dissolving illusions and merging with pure awareness.

This shift can be terrifying. And yet, it often leads to profound clarity. Some people cry in relief, others tremble in fear. But either way, the experience leaves a mark that never fades. Don’t mistake ego death for oblivion—it’s expansion. Reclaim your soul by surrendering the mask.

Ancient Wisdom and the Origin of the Ego’s Fall

Across time, cultures have sought ego dissolution through sacred rites. Although Timothy Leary coined the modern term in the 1960s, the essence of this experience predates him by millennia. In Buddhism, practitioners seek satori, a flash of ego-free enlightenment. Meanwhile, Sufi mystics call it fana, the annihilation of self within divine love. And in Christian mysticism, the dark night of the soul often births the union with God.

Wiccans and witches invoke transformation through the Craft. During the waning moon, they cast spells to shed false layers. They conjure energy, manifest clarity, and enchant their space to honor rebirth. Therefore, ego loss becomes ritual—a sacred dance with death and life.

What Sparks Ego Death?

Many gateways lead to ego death. Some are traumatic, while others are intentional and sacred.

Brush with death: a forced awakening. Survive near-death, and your identity might shatter. Because trauma dismantles normal brain function, the ego sometimes collapses under pressure. While terrifying, these moments often lead to peace, unity, or even spiritual bliss.

Psychologist Stanislav Grof believed such states echo birth or foreshadow actual death. And in metaphysical terms, these awakenings may serve as soul initiations. Although painful, they tear away illusions, leaving raw truth behind.

Sacred Plants and psychedelic portals can lead to a healthy ego death too. Entheogens like psilocybin, ayahuasca, and DMT serve as bridges to ego transcendence. Because they alter perception deeply, they dismantle egoic constructs quickly. But take caution, for these journeys are not without risk.

Note for readers: I am not recommending any of these substances.

Hallucinations, paranoia, or psychosis can occur, especially without spiritual grounding. Yet when approached with reverence and preparation, plant medicine can catalyze profound healing. Witches often work with lunar cycles and protective circles to prepare for such deep metaphysical journeys. Therefore, intention and sacred space are essential for those who walk this path.

I don’t subscribe to the need for chemical inducement of ego death, but rather magical rituals, working with herbs in-so-far as it is safe. Be careful of the company you choose to do such things with.

Discipline and Devotion: The Spiritual Way

Ego death doesn’t always arrive like lightning—it can unfold slowly through discipline. Practices like meditation, fasting, and chanting gradually weaken the ego’s grip. This is part of loving yourself correctly and also shadow work. In Wicca and witchcraft, these may take the form of moon rituals or invocations to divine archetypes.

And over time, the mundane world begins to shimmer with unseen energies. Because spiritual commitment opens portals within, the veil grows thinner. Eventually, the ego dissolves, and the soul steps forth. Additionally, consider purifying ritual baths as part of preparation.

How It Feels to Die Before Dying

What does this transformation of ego death feel like? The moment can feel like floating in a void. Although some experience bliss, others feel fear. Regardless of emotion, a deep truth emerges. All barriers fall away, and you sense unity with the cosmos. Because identity no longer confines you, divinity floods in.

And as you return to ordinary awareness, you carry this wisdom with you. The experience may change how you view reality, relationships, and even death itself. Therefore, integration is essential.

After the Storm: Healing After Ego Dissolution

The journey doesn’t end with the collapse of ego and ego death—it begins there. Grounding becomes vital once the veil lifts. Use witchcraft, meditation, or ritual to re-anchor yourself. Because post-experience sensitivity is high, protect your energies carefully. Wiccans often use salt, candles, and moon water for this phase.

And journaling or dreamwork can help weave lessons into daily life. Therefore, healing must follow awakening. Let the Craft support your rebirth. Enchant your altar, speak your truths, and manifest your new path under the moon’s light. Through metaphysical devotion, your spirit will grow clear and steady.

Embrace the Unveiling

Don’t fear the loss of ego—it’s the soul reclaiming its throne. Each moment of surrender in ego death opens you to more light. Although the ego clings tight, truth is patient. So conjure courage, invoke clarity, and walk the sacred path. Ego death isn’t destruction—it is a sacred rebirth.

 

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Five of Wands https://thealtpath.net/five-of-wands/ https://thealtpath.net/five-of-wands/#comments Fri, 14 Nov 2025 11:25:45 +0000 https://thealtpath.net/?p=20718 The Five of Wands hits with noise and friction, and conflict waits in each corner. It is easy to learn this card with my P.E.N.S.I Method First, this card brings heat that forces growth through struggle. Next, it pushes you to face truth instead of hiding. Tension rises fast, and it refuses to soften. Still,…

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The Five of Wands hits with noise and friction, and conflict waits in each corner. It is easy to learn this card with my P.E.N.S.I Method First, this card brings heat that forces growth through struggle. Next, it pushes you to face truth instead of hiding. Tension rises fast, and it refuses to soften. Still, you learn what you want when everything feels loud.

Five of Wands MeaningThis post uses my P.E.N.S.I Method Position, Element, Numerology, Symbolism, and Intuition to build a full picture of the card, and it gives structure. Next, each layer adds shape, meaning, and guidance, and you can use it right now.

Five of Wands, 1st Layer of Context: Position

We are not concerned with position in a reading just yet. In the future, I’ll be doing lots of spreads. But for now, for a little context, it’s going to be about clashes at work or on creative projects.

This card drops when voices collide, and it demands your full attention. Next, it shows stress, rivalry, and strong wills that clash hard, so courage matters. Then, it asks you to choose action instead of silence, and it reminds you to move. Still, it suggests that chaos can build strength when you stay grounded, and it pushes you to hold steady. Finally, it points to hard talks, group challenges, or inner storms, so presence matters.

How do you remember that? Well, don’t memorize, learn to associate instead. If you have not, read the first P.E.N.S.I. lesson, it will help you make sense of tarot cards much easier.

2nd Layer of Context: Element is Fire

In P.E.N.S.I., fire is passion and often career and creative endeavors. It’s all about what we are passionate about. Very simple. Remember, fire maybe destructive, but it is always creating. One thing falls away or is undone, and something new is created that takes its place.

First, the Five of Wands lives in Fire, and it speaks with bold force. Next, this element burns with passion and sharp truth, so it clears confusion. Then, it pushes movement when things feel stuck, and it wakes sleeping power. Still, conflict flares because each person holds strong need, so tension builds. Later, Fire clears the air and forces honesty, and it strips away lies. Finally, it brings heat that shapes strength, not ruin, so power grows.

3rd Layer of Context for Five of Wands: Numerology of Five

Five in P.EN.S.I. is always about sorrow, loss, regret or all three. And this always precedes a better time, and one should have hope of better. First, five marks change and the breaking of old patterns. Next, it pulls you from comfort and shakes loose what no longer fits. Then, it shows a turning point when struggle must lead to motion. Still, it teaches that change feels rough before it feels right. Finally, it calls for courage and clear direction, so you can rise.

4th Layer of Context: Symbolism

First, the raised wands show challenge and clashing goals. Next, the scattered ground shows weak footing, so balance matters. Then, the open sky shows space to grow. Still, the bodies in motion show skill built through effort, so practice counts. Finally, the bright colors show energy that refuses to dim. This is along the lines of generic descriptions found in guidebooks.

But if we examine the symbols with a lens of “actual life”, that is all true, but I get a lot more out of it. Knowing this is about passion, creative projects, career matters, ask if it looks like people are getting along. I do not think so. It looks like conflict, not war, but conflict.

I see conflict, disagreements, challenges like petty squabbling in the workplace or in a coven or tight social group. There is a real need to put some serious effort into problem solving.

5th Layer of Context: Intuition

Gregory about five of wands rider waite tarotFirst, listen close because the Five of Wands pushes honesty. Next, step forward instead of stepping aside. Still, speak what burns inside you, and hold your ground without cruelty. Finally, trust your fire, so strength leads you.

When all the factors of P.E.N.S.I. come together, you get the above. But, more specific, I often know there’s a clash of creative ideas, everyone pushing their ideas to the point of bruising other’s egos. I challenge the client I am reading for to take leadership, acknowledge other people’s ideas, give them kudos. Strive to see how all those ideas can work together, the sum of the ideas are greater than the ideas alone.

Reversed Meaning

First, when reversed, tension turns toxic, and peace breaks down. Next, it shows shouting without reason and battles without aim, so you must stop wasting strength. Still, reset the field before blame grows. Finally, step back and choose calm, so truth can breathe. It still warrants taking a leadership role, and a higher road.

Sympathetic Decks

In its era, this would have been about serious business, and grand projects with large scale. But in this day and age it can fit just about any work environment or creative group. This card pairs well with decks that show sharp lines and bold color but whose art includes heat, motion and real bodies.

All versions of the Rider–Waite deck have depictions of five “combatants”.  The deck I use the most these days and professionally, (Ellen Dugan’s Witches’ Tarot) features dragon riders, but again, it’s not war, just competition of egos that is unhealthy for the group.

Correspondences

  • Fire
  • Mars
  • Leo
  • Number Five

Tarot Spell: Five of Wands

First, place the Five of Wands card before you, and set a candle just above it to call in fire. Next, stand with your feet firm and hold a wand or branch in your strong hand, so your body feels grounded. Then focus on the card and speak the conflict aloud and let your voice shake loose blocked heat. Strike the ground once and name the result you choose, so the action becomes real.

Finally, let wax fall near the card without touching it, and thank the flame for the strength now set in motion. Think conflict resolution, and a meeting of the minds, an acceptable agreement.

Tarot Spell: Ace of Wands (Reversed)

First, place the Five of Wands card face up beside a bowl of water, so calm surrounds the fire. Next, write each conflict you must end on a small slip of paper, and speak them with steady breath. Then rest your fingers on the card and read the list aloud, so the tension leaves your body.

Fold the paper tight and drop it into the water, and watch the words soften. Finally, tilt the card away from you and walk forward without looking back, so release becomes truth. Use this spell when you seek an end to a conflict you believe will not end but need to walk away from.

Final Note

First, the Five of Wands asks for bold strength. Next, it shows struggle that teaches power through fire. Still, you rise when you move with purpose. Finally, choose battles with care, and step forward with intent.

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